The Connected Motherhood Experience (C.M.E.)
The only coaching experience designed exclusively for Black physician moms to create the life, career, and relationships they actually want — with a community that understands it all.
This is for you if you’ve ever thought…
“I’m carrying the workload of three people, and it’s just expected.”
“I’ve built a life where I can give back to my family, but sometimes the responsibility feels like too much.”
“I’m afraid if I slow down, everything will fall apart.”
“Why is everything still on my plate when I have a whole partner?”
“I’ve achieved so much… but is this actually what I want?”
The C.M.E. is where you take back control of your life.
Where the pressure eases, the guilt quiets, and you finally have people in your corner who understand every part of it.
It’s a high-impact, 12-week coaching and community experience built by and for Black physician moms — where the real magic comes from connection, shared perspective, and learning from each other’s breakthroughs.
A 30-minute conversation to explore your goals, answer your questions, and see if The C.M.E. is a good fit for you.
“There are very few people in our position, as Black physician moms, who truly understand what we’re going through.
I’ve never had an experience like this before.
It’s rare to find so many like-minded women sharing the same lived experiences, especially where I live. That sense of understanding and connection was an incredible benefit of this group”
- C.M.E. Alum
What You Get Inside The C.M.E.
12 weeks of live group coaching calls
Real conversations about the challenges that matter most
Custom support and strategies you can use right away
Replays your way
Watch the video or listen via private podcast, so you can catch up while commuting, working out, or on call.
Private WhatsApp group
A daily touchpoint for connection, perspective, and quick wins between calls.
The CME Private Pod-Course
All the core content in bite-sized audio lessons, so you can revisit topics anytime.
“Dr. Toya encouraged me to start devoting more time to myself and taking care of myself. I learned to see the time I spend with my family is productive too. Oddly, my work became more efficient. So I actually got that time back in this weird, magical way.”
- C.M.E. Alum
What The Connected Motherhood Experience Is
The C.M.E. is a space where you don’t have to prove your experiences are real — they’re believed and understood from the start.
It’s where honest conversations lead to clearer values, stronger boundaries, and decisions that feel right for the life you actually want.
You’ll hear your own story in someone else’s words. It’s comforting and inspiring!
You’ll learn to make sustained changes you can see and feel — in your work, your home, and your relationships.
“At some point you just need to do it and invest in yourself… you have to try something different, because you can’t keep doing the same thing and then expect that things will change.”
- C.M.E. Alum
Curious but Unsure? You’re Not the Only One…
Before joining, a few of our members wondered if coaching would actually help them, or if they even had time for it.
Here’s what two of them had to say:
Dr. A: “I was hesitant as well, but I knew that I needed change so I took the plunge and made the investment in myself. Participating in this group was one of the best decisions that I have made in my life!”
Dr. T: “To any Black Physician Mom who’s curious but unsure, maybe even skeptical, about coaching or joining a program like this: don’t hesitate. Join with an open mind and heart… be vulnerable and ready to receive transformative feedback!”
If you’ve been wondering whether this is worth your time, energy, or investment — these women have been where you are. And they’ll tell you: the return is bigger than you can imagine.
“This community of women were there to help along the journey and brought an element of relatability, belonging and acceptance.”
“This community of women were there to help along the journey and brought an element of relatability, belonging and acceptance.”
“The value of CME is immeasurable, take the leap of faith and you will not be disappointed!”
“The value of CME is immeasurable, take the leap of faith and you will not be disappointed!”
“The first time that we met, I realized all these were my people. You know, especially when I think one person was like doing the hair or something. And then somebody else was there like breastfeeding at one point. And then I was there breastfeeding at one point. I was like, Okay, no, these are really my people.”
“The first time that we met, I realized all these were my people. You know, especially when I think one person was like doing the hair or something. And then somebody else was there like breastfeeding at one point. And then I was there breastfeeding at one point. I was like, Okay, no, these are really my people.”
"I came in feeling really disconnected in a lot of areas in my life, and now I am feeling connected in some way, shape or form in all of those areas in my life.”
"I came in feeling really disconnected in a lot of areas in my life, and now I am feeling connected in some way, shape or form in all of those areas in my life.”
About Me
I’m Dr. Toya, OBGYN, coach, and host of the ✨Stethoscopes and Strollers✨ podcast. I work with physician moms in the thick of change—becoming new parents, switching jobs, launching businesses, stepping into leadership, or simply figuring out what they want next. I help them move through these transitions without losing themselves, their relationships, or the moments that matter most.